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A dear friend of mine texted me recently about her struggle to decide whether to have another baby. It’s no small thing. A lot of my age-mates are in the same boat. The clock is ticking, and our bodies are aging, and having babies in our late thirties is a lot more exhausting than it was a decade ago. gas laws worksheet pdf As I talked with my friend, she expressed the nagging feeling deep down in her heart that she’s not done. I told her, “If you don’t think you’re done, you probably aren’t.” Our conversation got me thinking about the book I finished several months ago and have been meaning to write about. It’s Bryan Caplan’s Selfish Reasons to Have More Kids: Why Being a Great Parent is Less Work and More Fun Than You Think .

First, let me just acknowledge that there are legitimate and important reasons not to have another baby. The decision is a very personal one, and I am not here to try to change anyone’s mind or encourage irrational babymaking. My purpose with this post is twofold: 1) Tell you about the book I read, and 2) Encourage those of you considering having another baby to go for it. If you’ve already decided you can’t have any more kids or don’t want any more kids, then please know I am not trying to interfere with your personal life. Are we cool? Cool.

Bryan Caplan’s book grabbed my attention when I was recovering from my 6th baby’s birth. I assured my husband that I wanted to read it, not because I wanted more kids, but because I was curious what he had to say, especially the part about how being a parent is “less work and more fun than you think.” If this mom gig could be more fun and less work, I was definitely on board with that.

Sometimes it seems that new parents can’t win. No matter what you do, there are likely family members, strangers, and experts who will tell you why it’s either a bad idea or downright dangerous. This is especially true when it comes to infant sleep. Every year I see new products and devices intended to assist parents with their elusive quest for slumber. And every year it seems there are new headlines about how this product or that device has been deemed dangerous.

Of course parents want their babies to be safe. electricity inside human body The only safe place for an infant to sleep, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics, is in an empty crib or bassinet on his/her back. The unfortunate reality for many parents is that small infants will sleep anywhere except lying on their backs in a crib. Please consult with trusted experts and make your own educated decisions about where and how you will get your infant to sleep. gas tax oregon However, I’d just like to share some of the information I, myself, have gathered in my 15 years of motherhood about how to ensure safe sleep for your infant in a variety of locations.

I was given a beautiful gift that Friday morning. While I started filling the pool in my bedroom with Denise still timing my contractions, I realized something wonderful. I felt no fear. I felt completely calm and confident. I felt totally ready to experience what was coming. All of my apprehension, dread, and anxiety about the birth had been completely swept away. That was a miraculous and tender mercy I hadn’t expected.

I did, however, have some feelings of disappointment bubbling under the surface. At one point, on Thursday, when I texted to give my midwife an update on my labor progress, she said something that, in my highly-sensitive and open state, caused me to emotionally retreat from her. gas city indiana She said, “Please try to stop determining if this is labor. Seems like you are trying to control it.” I know she was trying to be helpful, but nonetheless I felt chastised. I didn’t feel at all like I was trying to control things. I just assumed she may have been wondering what was happening with my body since hours had passed since our last communication, and she had requested that I keep her posted. It also helped me to verbally acknowledge that I was still making progress, even if it didn’t look “real” from the outside to anyone else. What I wish she had said instead was, “Thank you for keeping me posted. You are doing so well. Everything that is happening is bringing you closer to your baby,” or something like that. Instead, I felt chastised for making observations about my progress and less and less inclined to communicate with her about what my body was doing. This made me sad because all of our interactions during the prenatal period had been really warm and wonderful.

Off and on over the years I have come up against the same inner struggle. It basically boils down to this: should we envision what we want (a righteous desire) and expect (or have faith) that it will happen OR should we surrender to the flow (divine design) and trust (have faith) that whatever does happen is for our good? There are pitfalls either way, I think. And perhaps it’s not a one-size-fits-all answer. Perhaps one approach could be right in some situations and the other best for different circumstances.

For the past week, I have battled internally with this struggle in regard to my currently-in-utero 6th baby’s position. Multiple times he has turned transverse. electricity videos for 4th grade He moves a lot, in fact. It’s my understanding that women (like me) who are what medical terminology calls “grand multipara” (having delivered five or more infants) often have abdominal and uterine muscles that are loose and flaccid, giving the fetus extra room to roll around, even at full-term. That definitely seems to be the case with my baby.