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My fiance had mentioned something about that when we first got together he said I would get too wet and so he couldn’t feel anything and it was hard to orgasm but since then we have been together for 3 years and he hasn’t happened for a long time he is used to my wetness maybe is your women getting really wet? Also what about your circulation? Do you take any medications? These are things to keep in mind also my fiance says when he get too hot if we dont open a window it makes it hard for him to orgasm maybe you need a little fresh air try having sex outside or in the laundry mat you may just need a vaction stress can make things happen

maybe talk to a doctor or a friend you can trust it may be something as simple as your nerves being bad or stress hopefully not you health but just dont be afraid to ask and get it checked out by a professional since you have no problem orgasming yourself it sounds like you are fine I would maybe just ask you woman to jack you off a little untill you get close and then slowly slip back inside her and you are sure to orgasm inside her if all else fails visit my website. And check some pics and video take care…

Hello. I am an ex girlfriend of a guy who has a hard time having an orgasm during sex. We were together for about 9 months, and he is the one who broke up with me cuz he was so concerned with this problem. He has reached orgasm a few times when we had sex both vaginally and anally, just not every time. We have such a huge physical attraction towards eachother and cant even keep out hands off eachother when we’re together. He mentioned that he masturbates alot, like 3 times a day at least. We live 2 hours apart and only see eachother on weekends. But then he mentioned that he had really cut down on "taking care of himself" and he still had an problem. He says it has happened with other woman he had dated, and it sometimes takes him awhile when he does it himself now. I was wondering if he may be gay or Bi or something. I suggested that he go to the doctor, but he hasnt as of yet. I felt really bad at first, like it was me, but he assured me it wasnt. We would have such great passionate sex, that i couldnt believe he wasnt reaching orgasm. For myself, as a woman, I cant reach orgasm thru intercourse alone. I love sex, but I either need manual or oral stimulation of the clitoris. And alot of women are like that, you just dont hear about very many men having this problem. Do u think he may be gay? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!! THANK YOU…..

…it’s certainly not a problem with my partner. I can totally understand how a girl might feel inadequate – "Every guy orgasms during sex, right? Usually too quickly, haha…" – but from my own experience, I’m chalking it up to a combination of:

– Getting the right position! Missionary can suck because it’s tiring and the angles are quite forced. Doggy style is often good because it can be a team effort, and penetration is usually deep. One girlfriend was much shorter than me, which meant that anal sex actually gave the best angles for pleasurable sex – but that’s a poor excuse for pressuring a girl into experimentation!

I find it easier to orgasm during oral sex, easier still through masturbation. That’s largely a matter of being able to easily hit all the really great-feeling spots. Orgasm during intercourse generally takes a concerted effort, and often it’s more fun not to really try.

I’ve found so long as I *talk about it*, make it clear that this isn’t a problem I have with the relationship – physically or emotionally – then we’re very happy. It’s actually nice to be able to enjoy having long periods of sex with someone I care about!

[Edit] And I can assure the previous poster that I, at least, am not gay. Orgasm isn’t the only measure of a guy’s excitement – so long as he seems into you in other ways, you can ignore your paranoia. If you relax it will probably help him, too.

I have been noticing that my fiance has been having a horrible time reaching a orgasm. I figured it has to be me something I am not doing. He gets so mad at me and says no I dont want to talk about it, it has nothing to do with you. But i think any girl would feel like it is her fault especially after two years it suddenly starts happening. He started having trouble about 2 weeks ago and since then he has maybe orgasmed 2x and intercourse has strayed. I know he feels bad but it makes me feel worse. Could it be stress? he has been really stressed from work lately. he also says that it feels like he is about to cum about and then it never comes. He says this happens two for three times during intercourse. I figured taking acouple days off will help. this just made us fight for three nights then the fourth we tried again and he still didnt. I cant just live with it. I know that it will start to effect our relationship negatively. anyone know of natural things he can take for this? anyone know why this could be happening?

yeah wow, pretty much the same problem here. my husband and I were best friends for 10 years then 2 years ago we got married. about a year ago this all started, he cant "get off" during intercourse. It makes me feel less of a woman and like a horrible wife. we both work stressfull jobs.I have walked in on him quite a few times in the past 6 months watching dirty movies and taking care of his business.I even considered leaving him because I think porn is nasty and he has a perfectly good wife right here, my honest opinion is that they get so addicted to dirty movies and what they get out of and then they do it so much that when they are with their woman they cant get off.. It hurts my feelings he doesnt want me like that, and he turns to !**@! girls on tv()whose vaginas are the size of the grand canyon. we are still working on this issue and he knows if i catch him again, I AM DONE! to be honest the thought of him doing that really turns me off. I wear sexy clothes, talk dirty, let him watch me and still he cant get off. my advice, tell him to stop masterbating and eventually it will fix the problem. I am week 2 of no porn and no masterbating.